I may have express myself poorly, sorry, was in a rush.
I got the services running fine, am still learning and testing few things but the things I need or build are available and running on local.
My issue is about publishing them online, like linking them to a domain name I bough, and pointing that to my static home IP address, and the routing for each of them
like "cloud.myhomelab.net" to point to my home IP, and then reverse proxy that to the nextcloud instance at 192.168.1.127:8080 that is a proxmox container running docker containers
I followed some of dbtech's tutorials, and tried via Porkbun and cloudflare tunnels, and just after posting this I saw that it finally propagated (after a looot of days) but can only reach one of the services I set up.
Another way i kinda heard about was not using cloudflare tunnels and redirecting the traffic to my static IP to an nginx container that then redirects the traffic inside my home lan but I really don't know how to handle security with that, and also my ISP is blocking traffic on port 80 and 443 ( "it's for our router firmware's updates..." that were like 4 years ago last update )
All the idea of how to connect my local machines to the outside world and different method and secure proofing is soo difficult to understand for my, i really can't wrap my head around on what does what