Alright, putting aside your elitist bullshit and your complaints about content you're not seeing because you chose not to see it...
I actually deleted everything on mainstream social media, except for Reddit and Lemmy. Everything else was just noise to me.
Do you see the difference between Reddit and Lemmy? Reddit has tens of millions of users having intellectual conversations about fashion, clothing, style, etc. across dozens of different subreddits. Some of those conversations are quite pleasant. I'm not going to suggest that you follow them, you're not into fashion, that's okay. I'm suggesting that the people who like those things go and talk about those things instead of dwelling on the metaconversations about the fediverse itself.