You might want to reevaluate your own education if you think "playing into a fantasy" makes any logical sense for how people treat each other...it's not a game.
Or, maybe you should consider that if what you're saying is true, why isn't there education on that, rather than the restriction of education on something that was approved elsewhere?
Or even how this entire "facade" can be held up all around social life, if in your eyes most of it is in regards to public bathrooms.
It honestly just sounds like you're poorly educated on the subject.
edit: Based on the fact most of what you're saying further down is just political talking points, and not anything based on something you yourself could've come up with...I think poorly educated is pretty right on the dot....