Same, except I’m a Gen X/Xennial man who never got anyone pregnant, so I didn’t have to deal with that problem. From the age of 12 when I entered the workforce part time to earn “spending money” by stripping tobacco, until 16 when I entered “the kitchen” with a food handlers licence the first time, until I was 39 and threw my back out I didn’t believe that I would ever be able to retire.
Since then my “luckiest bastard to ever exist” trait has kicked in. I’ve managed to accidentally start two “businesses” that will allow me to retire by the year 2026. I’ll be 45.
Don’t give up. Believe in your talents and stop falling prey to imposter syndrome. You have far more ability than you know. I know this to be true, because I am not special, and I found out the hard way that I have more abilities than I knew.