themeatbridge , 6 months ago But they both think the other is to blame for their breakup and feel ambivalence towards the other. He doesn’t need her love, but she’s cut all contact and wants nothing to do with him. That makes him feel like she never cared for him. She feels neglected and gaslighted, realizing that he was hung up on an ex before her, and just doesn’t want to put up with any more of his bullshit.
But they both think the other is to blame for their breakup and feel ambivalence towards the other.
He doesn’t need her love, but she’s cut all contact and wants nothing to do with him. That makes him feel like she never cared for him.
She feels neglected and gaslighted, realizing that he was hung up on an ex before her, and just doesn’t want to put up with any more of his bullshit.