Tenet had a pretty consistent “anti-james bond” vibe going, and whilst the protagonist is still relatively conventionally respectable (in a smart, strong, action man way) I feel that counts for something.
Pinnochio is probably very much up your alley, but to me it’s various themes of “wow fascism bad” and “misfits good actually” true as they are can seem a bit shallow at times.
I’m also going to recommend A Muppets Christmas Carol. Mostly to contest the idea that positive masculinity is a uniquely modern phenominon, but also because winter approaches and some people might forget to watch it.