I agree with a lot of what you're saying, but some of your stats are just propaganda. For example:
And 9 out of 10 rape victims are women.
This is absolutely false. Mary P. Koss doctored the stats, because she does not believe that women can rape men, or that that would be serious. But if you take forced penetration into account, then suddenly it is roughly 50-50 and no longer a gendered crime.