gapbetweenus

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gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in The Unexpected Wholesomeness of the Boys’ Chat

sending me memes and affirmations all day.

This sounds like my personal hell. Shows how different we all are.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in No, you don’t have to see your toxic family on Thanksgiving

You can always chose you a new family, made from people that you care about and that care about you.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend

Like I said, to give a tailored advice you actually need to know the person pretty well, to understand where exactly they fuck up.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend

Sure on individual level but without knowing the person there is not much general advice to be given. It will always be general things like don’t be ugly or shy.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend

But there is no special secret to dating to begin with.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Benevolent sexism: a feminist comic explains how it holds women back

Fair point.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Benevolent sexism: a feminist comic explains how it holds women back

I think there are a good amount of people who are on the fence who would be persuaded by the detailed argument

I can see that point, thank you. I was more thinking about people being totally opposed, but yeah - for someone on the fence who is genuinely looking into the Argument that would be indeed a very nice comic.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Benevolent sexism: a feminist comic explains how it holds women back

She has a problem with assertiveness and she blames men for her own shortcomings.

And I’m so sick and tired of the anti-men bullshit that it’s really affecting my self esteem and my perception of myself

Maybe you just need more self esteem? Why are you blaming society for your own shortcomings?

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Benevolent sexism: a feminist comic explains how it holds women back

Nobody who is not open minded is going to read long ass comic, that is contradicting their world view. Seems like preaching to the choir type of situation to me, makes the artis feel good but misses the audience that would profit from the message.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.

I feel like at least in Europe a lot of people see marriage as an outdated concept.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in How to Get a Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Themfriend

“be out there and be confident”

But that’s what it boils down to in the end - especially for men. Decent looking women and above can even leave out the second part completely.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Benevolent sexism: a feminist comic explains how it holds women back

I feel like the same story and message could have been conveyed in a single comic strip.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

Problem is, people using this term might simply no understand each other, since they might mean quite different things.

gapbetweenus , to Men's Liberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

Feminism is also not a useful term anymore - since people have vastly different definitions.

gapbetweenus , (edited ) to Men's Liberation in Talking Over Women

It’s not just a gender thing, it’s also a family/culture thing. Like I just come from a family where people will talk over each other, but than I have some balkan friends who will talk over me like it’s nothing (no matter the gender). What I try to do is to adjust to the situation - if someone is quieter I will let them speak out, if someone is interrupting I will also join in in a more lively way. In a group setting if I see that someone is getting talked over - I will try to refer the conversation back to them.

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