sfp might be an issue for my since my modem and Ap don’t have that port
SFP is something like a port for ports - you buy an SFP module based on what port you need, so you can just buy a network device with SFP cages that can handle your required speed and then pick a combination of Ethernet / optical SFP modules that match your needs. But the modules aren’t exactly cheap, even the Ethernet ones.
Router recommendations for small home network that supports 1.5Gbps and VLANs (without breaking the bank)
I have a home network consisting of several raspberry pis, a Roku, and a total of 4 laptops and smartphones....