I like the suggestion that we concern ourselvrs more with the quality of men’s internal lives, but I do worry we’re still objectifying men as ‘the problem’.
Think of the structural issues which have caused this to be the case. Blaming men for not achieving an externally defined target isn’t going to help anyone.
Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like. ( www.nytimes.com )
Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.