@georgetakei it is not tacky, it’s ludricrous. So you don’t have a registry (which is bad enough but got normalized in the 80’s), you still will get gifts from people who want to wish you well or want to send you a family momento to commemerate the occaision. Asking for money to offset the cost of the wedding or honeymoon is just another step down the slippery slope. Why not just sell tickets?