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Grandwolf319 ,

Besides that, you also get what you paid for.

Hiring someone in India means that the person is gonna give you as much dedication as their wage will allow. If they produced top of the line stuff they would want close to top of the line compensation.

Grandwolf319 ,

You’re assuming 3 of them produce 33% or more compared to me.

In my experience, the math doesn’t add up and you just get what you paid for

Grandwolf319 ,

It has also showed when things aren’t good and are used, users notice slowly, but the trust is gone for a long while.

Grandwolf319 ,

There is no value for trust, there is just a negative value for mistrust. Once it goes to 0, line go down.

Grandwolf319 ,

If feminism wasn’t women centric, it wouldn’t be called feminism, it would be called humanism or just equality.

How can a movement centred around women empowerment also empower men?

Some people read the above and see it possible, some, like me, see it as an oxymoron.

If it’s just a label, then just rebrand it…

Grandwolf319 ,

It's because of the name and history of fighting for women

Sounds like different movement then. There is nothing wrong with saying feminism did its job and now we need equalism.

You might be okay with that refocus, but maaannnyyy feminist aren’t.

Grandwolf319 ,

From an outsider, when I heard Black Lives Matter I thought the core goal was to value black lives more.

It’s less about what they “want” and more about what got them to protest… which is police behaviour towards black individuals, not everyone.

Grandwolf319 ,

And these both side feminist are on the same team as the “kill all men” ones. I’ve never seen any “real feminist” call these ones out.

Grandwolf319 ,

It's unfortunate that terminally online minorities within movements that screech the loudest can have such a profound effect on the image of that movement.

It’s cause we are in the age of valuing the loudest opinion not the most logical.

Lack of education is a hell of a drug.

Grandwolf319 ,

I’ve been told it’s not about just women, I don’t believe that until it’s renamed.

Why call something a name to misrepresent it?? Unless of course, feminism is mostly about women and this is just gas lighting?

How many feminists fought for men’s right recently compared to fighting for women?

Grandwolf319 ,

Wow the only sane comment I found in this thread so far.

The issue isn’t masculinity or how it can be toxic (to even suggest it is insulting imo).

The issue is:

Society does not value men!!!

That’s it, it’s not complicated at all. It’s not this weird problem with masculinity.

Society does not value men inherently like women (as in for just existing), it values the benefit they can provide.

This has been the case in all of human history. The difference now is that we no longer prepare most/all men to be able to provide the most value they can.

I always thought the solution was to value men inherently too. But that means saying a “you go bro” to incels and other “low value” men.

Grandwolf319 ,

This was originally a reply to a comment but I thought it’s important enough to reply to the post too:

The issue isn’t masculinity or how it can be toxic (to even suggest it is insulting imo).

The issue is:

Society does not value men!!!

That’s it, it’s not complicated at all. It’s not this weird problem with masculinity.

Society does not value men inherently like women (as in for just existing), it values the benefit they can provide.

This has been the case in all of human history. The difference now is that we no longer prepare most/all men to be able to provide the most value they can.

I always thought the solution was to value men inherently too. But that means saying a “you go bro” to incels and other “low value” men.

Grandwolf319 ,

Well I’m not claiming that women are or are not valued for the wrong reasons, just that they are not mainly valued for the benefits they provide but men are.

I’m saying men being valued for the benefit they provide without support is why there is a lot of mental health issues today. And that what people call “toxic masculinity” is basically caused by this expectation that society puts on men.

Grandwolf319 ,

That’s a good way to put it.

It’s also what I meant by women being valued inherently.

It’s like conditional love vs unconditional love, they are VERY different.

Grandwolf319 ,

fighting against patriarchy benefits everyone suffering under it

So right from the get go, the language you use assumes masculinity or “patriarchy” is inherently broken and needs to be fixed. I find that sexist and imo a non sexist take is to free people from human greed and selfishness.

as women have needed and still need to fight for basic legal rights and autonomy

Yes! That’s when feminism made sense. It was named after women, for women’s rights, which they got. Feminism being a success meant it was not needed as much.

ones that are the reason why we all have a better society,

That’s is VERY subjective and I doubt you would get most people to agree that feminism made their life better. As I guy I can inform you that it has made my life much, much worse. I doubt you would believe me though.

Disregarding and diminishing all the efforts and benefits by nitpicking over the origin of the word just seems ungrateful and unfair.

I mean if that’s what you took away from my comment then you misunderstood. Feminism worked well for women, and I’m happy for them. They are the judge on what helps them and what does not. Same way women have that right, I have the right to state that feminism has made life better for women at the expense of men.

If there are women out there fighting for true equality, please note that if your truly fighting for men, you would use the terminology that communicates that the best, by not using the label feminism.

Grandwolf319 ,

Value women as in having more women’s shelters, having more support systems for women. Or even things like more scholarships for women.

Usually men have to provide value to get support.

Grandwolf319 ,

Flight attendant? Well clearly their mistake is not living in a third world city, they constantly travel anyway.

/s

Grandwolf319 ,

Can confirm, it’s all positives with the only downside being that it costs a little more.

Grandwolf319 ,

Omg, does that mean your “eye color” changes in the sun?

Grandwolf319 ,

That koala’s face says:

“That’s right, I got her all to myself”

Grandwolf319 ,

I was shocked that the title didn’t say:

Upvote money cat…

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