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otp , to Men's Liberation in The Perception Paradox: Men Who Hate Feminists Think Feminists Hate Men

I find it really weird to present it that way as if women started it...

otp , to Men's Liberation in Why It's So Hard for Men to Say No to Sex and Why Saying Yes to Unwanted Sex Has Consequences.

Is relief an emotion?

otp , to Work Reform in The fun thing about needing a job is that all the advice is either incredibly demeaning or incredibly futile. Usually both

There is a huge gap between “social butterfly” and “I’d rather commit suicide than asking my friend if their workplace is hiring”.

otp , to Men's Liberation in Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?

You can hang out with a group of women and share that without being in a space that completely forbids men. But I get what you’re saying.

otp , to Men's Liberation in Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?

Why do some women like to have women only spaces?

Let’s be real – often it’s because of poorly behaved men.

otp , to Men's Liberation in Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?

Thank you for sharing that. I haven’t had the same experiences. I don’t feel the same sense of judgement or anything in mixed-gender spaces, but I won’t discount those who do.

I have close friends of both genders with whom I’d talk about those kinds of issues with.

I am confused as to why there needs to be a “men’s-only club” for some of those conversations to happen, though. Those generally aren’t conversations I’d want to have where strangers can overhear, regardless of gender. So I would just call a friend to go somewhere private, likely outdoors, or somewhere like a car or someone’s home.

In my area, I do believe there are men’s-only therapy groups and the like, and I hope that that becomes the norm around the world as time progresses.

Unfortunately, I think the bias towards women’s-only spaces being normalized and men’s-only spaces being replaced with mixed-gendered spaces has been because of the history of men using those spaces to exclude women (e.g. from career opportunities), or from behaving inappropriately towards women in mixed-gendered spaces (such as gyms and swimming pools).

I think there is a lot of work to go into socializing young boys and young men. I would almost be worried that male-only spaces would be somewhere where men “Don’t have to worry about that woke/Politically Correct shit anymore”, and then eventually feel like that’s how society should be.

There is definitely a place for male-only spaces, but as I’ve never felt the need for them, I was curious as to what others wanted them for. So, thank you for that.

otp , to Men's Liberation in Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?

Is that true even for young children, though?

I could see the bonding being different in different contexts though.

otp , to Work Reform in Why does a prospective employer need my address?

Whether a joke or not, I loved this comment. Sorry about the downvotes! Lol

otp , to Men's Liberation in Can Parents Prevent Their Sons From Sliding to the Right?

What is the need for male-only spaces? I can see the need for positive male role models for sure, and those would’ve often been found in those male-only spaces you mentioned. But what is lacking from not having them be male-only?

otp , to Work Reform in The fun thing about needing a job is that all the advice is either incredibly demeaning or incredibly futile. Usually both

i saw someone on twitter saying to “leverage your network” i’d sooner leverage a shotgun into my mouth jesus fucking christ

…why?

Isn’t that the most reliable (and arguably easiest) way to find a new job?

otp , (edited ) to Personal Finance in should the US consider a currency redenomination?

In Korea, 1000₩ is about $1 (USD).

Your rent could be 200,000* units per month. So it’s basically a factor of 100, but for cents instead of dollars.

Yet shopping was still a whole lot easier because if the price said 1000₩, you paid 1000₩, no questions asked. Unlike in the US, where your $1.00 coffee gets $0.10 added for tax, $0.25 added for the tip, so even though the menu says $1.00, the actual cost to the customer is $1.35.

The problem isn’t that the numbers are big. The problem is that you’re trying to think about national numbers from the perspective of an individual.

500 miles might not be far for a pilot, but it would be for a jogger. We don’t need to shorten the units to make it easier for the jogger to understand 500 miles. (0.5 kilomiles! Lol)

*EDIT: Fixed the scale. I’ve been working with Japanese Yen which is a factor of 10, but KRW is a factor of 100 like I said…but mathed wrong. Lol

otp , to aww in Feels

“That was awesome! Now YOU give me a treat.”

otp , to Work Reform in The first results from the world’s biggest basic income experiment in Kenya are in - Vox

The researchers found no evidence that any of the payments discouraged work or increased purchases of alcohol

I’d say that this is a pretty important finding. This is a common talking point for people against UBI, so finding evidence to the contrary is promising

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