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h3mlocke , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude
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Im so angry, you dang kids and your work-from-home! Back in my day....

Numuruzero , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude

Fundamentally I agree that work shouldn't need to be a priority in this situation if the individual doesn't want it to be, but this is like basically the optimal scenario. I wish more companies respected their employees' time and strictly valued results over the appearance of business.

HeartyBeast , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude
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It is a great attitude, yes. Some people actually enjoy work and do work of meaning. Some people also love their kids and want to be there for them. Some companies treat their employees with respect.

These are not things to shit on

ashok36 ,

This is a perfect example of perfection being the enemy of good.

Allowing, even encouraging, employees to work from home in order to temporarily care for a sick child is a good thing. The complainers must work somewhere that when you take off from work, someone else just comes along and does all your work for you. Needless to say, that's a rarity and also sucks for your coworkers.

SupraMario ,

Yea this is insane people are shitting on WFH, we're moving in the right direction, yea its not perfect but damn...

sukhmel ,

What you say is correct, and nothing of what you say I see in the posted screenshot. That very much feels like an advertisement for "return to office but just like not 100%, only like 90%, you gotta understand, man"

breadsmasher , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude
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I think OP is just bitter AF.

Hey, OP, I work fully remote. I also discuss any possible role with a “work from home is non negotiable”.

Ive not been in an office for years

McFarius , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude

This seems like an infinite step up from having to be in the office for 60-80 hours a week just to look impressive, while accomplishing little after the 35 hour mark. I would take this lady's position in a heartbeat.

SupraMario ,

Productivity went up when WFH was pushed during covid. Even though there were fully remote companies before it. The only people complaining are the retail and landlords of commercial rental properties. WFH should be the standard now, there is 0 downside to it.

sukhmel ,

Also, productivity is exactly what companies now state as the reason for pushing everyone back to the office

SupraMario ,

Yep, which is complete bullshit and I think most people now see that it's bullshit. It seems to be just the old guard trying to keep their grip on power.

makingStuffForFun , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude
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My wife is unwell. I've taken her to the doctor's. I'm sitting here now, on my laptop and working. Because I can and there is stuff I want done. She's leaning into my shoulder, and I'm typing this. It's good for her. It's good for me. I see no issue with that article.

That lady I'm sure could take the day off, but sick kids are pretty low maintenance. So why not get work done? The mother isn't sick.

RootBeerGuy OP ,
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Sick kids are low maintenance. You've either been a lucky parent or you have no kids.

Gradually_Adjusting ,
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It depends. If it's the usual stuff they mostly sleep and bitch about how bored they are, sure, but sometimes it's not. No reason to circumscribe the conversation to "how sick kids usually get".

zloubida ,
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Sick children mean bad nights, frequent interruptions and a lot of stress. It isn't healthy to add a normal work day on top of that, even from home.

10MeterFeldweg , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude

This is one of the rare occasions, where I don't get the problem with this "I am a proud working bee" stuff. I have kids and they are sick very seldom, but if they are sick, they are mostly sleeping half the day. I want to be with them, but I also can get stuff done. Maybe my point of view differs because I am freelancing.

Omgarm , to LinkedinLunatics in Amazing attitude

Raving about working aside, what's wrong with this? Kids get sick a lot and you definitely need 2 jobs to comfortably pay for them these days.

Loads of my coworkers work an extra day from home when their kids are sick and it works great. I'd say it's probably one of the best reasons to work from home.

Edit: I work from home about 2-3 of my 4 work days. I only go to the office to see my coworkers voluntarily or for the physical meetings. I would not wish forced full time in person days for people who can work from home.

walter_wiggles ,

I think the problem is that it should be standard, but the LinkedIn poster is talking about it like her company is SO generous.

RootBeerGuy OP ,
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Yes and no. Multiple things are the problem.

1st - what you said, this shouldn't be a thing worth highlighting and its sad it is

2nd - just the usual online clout generating using your sick child. The image below is the poster with her sick daughter in her lap, I cut it off on purpose. I get it, images are more powerful than words but using your child for online clout is a hard no for me, triple that when your child is sick

3rd - the image is taken by another person. Often you see this sort of post with the person taking a clear selfie, here its almost a professional quality photoshoot type of picture, I know its still probably just a mobile phone though, not saying they hired a photographer for this. So who is that person? I'd hope the dad, but why is that person there able to take that picture but not taking care of the child. Sure, maybe same situation, working from home to also take care of the child and they take turns. But then that's a bit dishonest not to mention you are sharing responsibility but instead celebrate yourself as an awesome "working mom"

4th - if the dad is also home, why can he not maybe even take care of the child alone?

5th - just like how sick leave should be normal, having leave to take care of your children should be the norm too. I know I am having a privileged perspective here, I live in a Scandinavian country where we have such a "taking care of sick children" leave. And its great! So yeah, if you don't live in a country like that, you look at this and feel like its not so bad, from my perspective it is

Creat ,

Just to comment on your first point, while in Utopia it wouldn't be worth mentioning, the fact that not every companys job listing even includes home office, that makes it not just worth mentioning, but means it needs to be highlighted. People look for jobs that allow some or full time home office (for whatever reasons, or in general). How are they supposed to find them if it's not mentioned anywhere?

sukhmel ,

For me the issue is that this is presented as a great thing that only hybrid offers. But it is the thing that full remote offers, too. And you're quite lucky to WFH 3/4 work days (also to have a 4-day work week, I guess, if that's so I'm really glad at least someone has it already)

My company doesn't enforce office at all, it's just a measly 40 working days per quarter that we are required to come to the office. I agree that it makes sense to see each other in person every now and then, it's just the way it's done doesn't really encourage planning to gather a team at the same location, just ticking the checkboxes

Cliff , to Photography in Cliff

:)

kinttach , to Photography in Cliff
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Is this Varkala Beach, Kerala?

cryptix OP ,

Yes

brbposting ,
jqubed , to Photography in Cliff
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Where is this?

cryptix OP ,

Varkala , Kerala

krash , to KDE in My 3yo loves GCompris

I got my kid on Gcompris when she was 2.5 year old, and noticed a lot of rough edges UX wise. Small things on how feedback was given to a kid, or the lack of separation between games depending on how suitable they were for different ages.

Still, I choose Gcompris any day over apps design around maximizing endorphin rewards and data collection. I just wish there were more quality FOSS games for toddlers.

Allon ,

Hi, If you go to gcompris setting, at the bottom you can choose the difficuly level by setting stars quantities.

Harbinger01173430 , to KDE in My 3yo loves GCompris

Staying away from Microshit and rotten apple is good and all, I do it myself, but…give him time outside to play without screens 🥺

MajinBlayze ,

Really, one photo is proof the kid doesn’t play outside?

Harbinger01173430 ,

Ofc, this is the internet after all

hornedfiend , to KDE in My 3yo loves GCompris

Is it wise to allow a 3 yo to use computers?

I’m not an expert by any means,but digital autism is no joke. This is just too much for their developing brains.

Daxtron2 ,

“Digital Autism” is not supported by current research to be a real thing. Autistic children are more likely to be attracted to technology as a substitute for social interactions though.

jamanetwork.com/journals/…/2812722

hornedfiend ,

I do hope this had been understood as an IMHO,as usual with there sort of comments.

Interesting conclusion though:

" The results of this systematic review and meta-analysis, including a notable indication for publication bias as well as small and sometimes nonsignificant effect sizes, and the limitations just described suggest that the issue of screen time and ASD is far from being resolved. In fact, the slight superiority (although not statistically significant) of the clinical diagnosis variable over the ASD symptom variable we observed in the meta-regression brings forth the basic obstacle in this field, which relates to the directionality of the association, as discussed at the start of this work. Alongside the displacement hypothesis focused on the potential negative outcomes associated with screens, a large portion of the literature is dedicated to the opposite direction—that is, to the characteristics that draw children with ASD to engage in screen activities.16-18 As concluded in a previous literature review on this topic, children with ASD seem to “show increased interest in screen viewing… [which] begins at a very young age.”18(p308) It is also reasonable to assume that parents of children with clinically diagnosed ASD adopt a relatively permissive position regarding their children’s screen use. It is possible, then, that the observed (bidirectional) association of the current meta-analysis reflects this tendency of children with diagnosed ASD, at least to a certain extent, thus requiring us to continue searching for other explanations for the increasing global rates of ASD. Excessive screen time may indeed come at the expense of positive real-life activities and close familial relationships that could increase ASD risk. However, further research is needed to support this concern, as the increase in ASD prevalence may be attributable to a range of medical, environmental, and societal factors. "

This "Excessive screen time may indeed come at the expense of positive real-life activities and close familial relationships that could increase ASD risk. " still supports my original comment.

Thank you for providing this by the way,but it’s still a debatable topic,with no real conclusion other than it needs more research.

gfom ,
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“Excessive screen time may indeed come at the expense of positive real-life activities and close familial relationships that could increase ASD risk.”

You can’t become autistic though. I was born with it, nothing made me autistic.

force ,

Whether you have Autism is entirely cemented before you’re born. You can’t just “get” Autism after your born, although diagnosis may be difficult until a certain stage in development. Same goes for ADHD and other neurodevelopmental disabilities.

Affidavit ,

I think it’s likely that the type of content children are exposed to matters more than the medium. Children who are exposed early to digital technology will have an advantage in adapting to our increasingly digital society over those who are prevented from accessing digital media until they are much older.

GCompris is an educational program; it’s not equivalent to watching Spongebob (no offence to Spongebob).

Lettuceeatlettuce ,
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I agree. I was grew up playing lots of games like Incredible Machine, Sim City, Zoo Tycoon, Age of Empires 2, etc. They were technical and challenging mentally. Taught me a lot about money management, logistics, testing theories, and solving puzzles.

I also watched a lot of Nat Geo, Discovery and History Channel, (Before it enshitified) read lots of science encyclopedias and books, used the Encarta CD-ROM encyclopedia often.

My siblings and our friends also played outside a lot. Built forts, played paintball, explored the woods, that kind of stuff.

The medium matters much less than the content.

Rustmilian ,
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It’s not “autism”, it’s brainrot induced from preditory content marketed at children.

Manzas ,

Elsagate if I remember correctly? It hasn’t gone away

Rustmilian ,
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Elsagate is just the tip of the iceberg. It’s not just content engineered to be repulsive and disturbing. The entire industry pushes content ment to be addicting and manipulative.

some_guy , to KDE in My 3yo loves GCompris
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